Journal of Qualitative Research in Health Sciences
Journal of Qualitative Research in Health Sciences

Investigating the Lived Experiences of Abused Mothers: A Phenomenological Study

Document Type : Original Article

Authors

Zabihollah Abbaspour 1
Golshan Vasel 2
Reza Khojastehmehr 3

1 Assistant Professor, Department of Counseling, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran

2 MA in Family Counseling, Department of Counseling, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran

3 Professor, Department of Counseling, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran

https://doi.org/10.22062/jqr.2021.193653.0
Abstract
Introduction: Domestic/family violence including child abuse, spousal abuse, elder abuse, and parental abuse is a common issue in the modern world. Adolescent-to-mother abuse is one of the phenomena that have been the focus of attention in recent decades due to its negative effects on the family system. The objective of the present study was to investigate the lived experiences of mothers abused by their adolescent children and to determine its final structure by surveying the research participants.
Methods: This study employed a qualitative and phenomenological method. Nine participants were selected using the purposive sampling method and in-depth interviews were conducted until data saturation. The interviews were recorded and transcribed and then analyzed using a descriptive phenomenological psychological method.
Results: Data analysis revealed 11 components of mothers abuse by their adolescent children including: 1) Physical injury, 2) Emotional abuse; 3) Financial pressure, 4) The sense of being emotionally harmed, 5) Perception of child’s behavior as an abusive interaction, 6) Spiritual harm, 7) Pathology, 8) Causality of abusive behavior; 9) Ambivalent perception of abusive behavior, 10) Cyclical nature of child-mother abusive interaction patterns, and 11) Intentionality of abusive behavior.
Conclusion: The results of this study showed that the depth of harms to mothers abused by their adolescent children can be very extensive and severe. The insights from this study provide many contributions to counseling centers and family therapists.

Keywords

Parental abuse
Abused mothers
Phenomenology
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Journal of Qualitative Research in Health Sciences
Volume 10, Issue 2
Spring 2021
Pages 108-114

  • Receive Date 14 August 2019
  • Accept Date 28 January 2020

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